Rationalizing LOVE II

I am ever amazed at how important things in life get little attention.

So when you find beautiful roses in your friends place, do you pick all of them and put them in your pocket?
Why should you then marry the first beauty you meet?
The first handsome dude you meet?

He who finds a wife finds a good thing.

One Kenneth Hagin had a chic imposed on him. The chic was a church chic so as you may guess she was a good fine girl. Especially morally.

One good day in church the chic didn't show up so Hagin had a vision in which he saw why the chic didn't appear in church.

She was committing adultery, when she came back she tried to explain what happened but he cut her short and told her he knew exactly where she was.

I don't think matters of love are light matters. I at times don't understand how a couple can get babies, not via infrared, wifi or Bluetooth then later on divorce.

Mistakes happen, my partner (business) and I organised an event at the new Greenlands Resource Center where we anticipated many students would show up so we planned seriously and even got into debt which I don't like at all. The days of the event came and a good number of students came but the number couldn't break even on the investment we had put into the event.

Eh! So that's the kind of thing that happens in marriage.

Mistakes happen.

Personally I have had my encounters on relationships.
I once saw what I convinced myself was an angel the most beautiful girl I had seen in my life. She was beautiful, modest dresser and serious in church.

When I would get ideas I could extinguish them, before more ideas could come I got a swelling on my eye. I was heavily impressed that the swelling was because I was looking in the wrong direction. Her direction as you may already have guessed. When some dude came her way I sighed and instantly the swelling DISAPPEARED.

Mmh! Several came and I felt no not this one, not that or the other.

While in campus I witnessed characters sleeping with girls in attempt to kiss many frogs so that they may know who THE ONE IS.

Uh! Ahs! Sighs from next door were not uncommon.

Probably will land some guys on Dead Beat Kenya, home of irresponsible dudes.

But mistakes happen.

Some character on a TV show argued that if we had soul mates what happens when one dies and the remaining one remarries?  Who of the two is THE ONE the late one or the current one?

That that's dude view, as for me death is not a consideration.

Rationalization is about trying to explain the unexplainable.

I don't understand how a lady gets many children with different fathers but none of the fathers cares to provide fatherhood to the children they just abscond their obligations thought they were supposed to take care of the children they sire.

Some smooth dude here has an affinity for yellow yellow girls, he has several children with different wives and concubines, I had hoped that such things don't happen.

Once I met the above dude, one of his heartthrobs passed first then the dude followed her a few steps behind. Some guys with motorcycles giggled and said that dude can't get over that girl.

HOW!!

He already has other lovers including a mother of my age mate friends (most disgusting).

Someone said intuition is not mystical.

Intuition should have told this who is THE ONE and who wasn't.

A friend of mine had this contribution, suppose you find THE ONE, because she has A, B and C characteristics later while in marriage you find some other ONE who has M, N and O characteristics which you now think you like better than A, B and C.

Some character, a lady, asked God for two rainbows so that she could know whether the guy she was about to marry was THE ONE, startling as it may sound the dude was THE ONE.

Some tele-evangelist is said to have asked for about 40 confirmations

A friend married a long dressed lady, modest dresser but years later the modest dresser remembered a verse in the Bible that says bad company corrupts good morals (the dude wasn't a Christian). But they had children!!!

Mmh! It good to be sure.

Helped? mmh! MARRIAGE WORKS. It calls for positivity and commitment